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title: Staying safe when you meet someone | Pairc Goodman
description: Simple habits that help exchanges go well, especially the first time you meet someone.
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# Staying safe when you meet someone

Simple habits that help exchanges go well, especially the first time you meet someone.

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Most exchanges go smoothly. These habits help keep it that way.

## Before you meet

- Read the member's profile, and their reviews if they have any.
- Keep your conversation in Messages, so there is a record of what you agreed.
- Agree clearly what will happen, when, where and for how long.
- For a first meeting, choose a public place if you can, or make sure someone else is nearby.
- Tell a friend or relative where you are going and when you expect to be back.

## During the exchange

- Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, you can stop and leave.
- You do not have to let anyone into your home if you are not comfortable.
- Do not hand over money, bank cards, passwords or identity documents.

## Afterwards

- If something went wrong or worried you, tell a coordinator. Contact your community.
- If you feel unsafe, block the member.

If anyone is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.

If an activity involves a vulnerable adult, ask your coordinator which rules apply.

## More guides in this topic

[Do other members see my phone number or email?](/help/members/privacy_safety/contact_details_private) [Who can see my profile?](/help/members/privacy_safety/who_can_see_profile) [How do I block someone?](/help/members/privacy_safety/blocking_members) [Muting a member: what it does and does not do](/help/members/privacy_safety/muting_members) [How do I report a listing or a post?](/help/members/privacy_safety/reporting_content) [What are safeguarding preferences?](/help/members/privacy_safety/safeguarding_preferences) [Can a coordinator read my messages?](/help/members/privacy_safety/coordinator_message_review) [Can people under 18 join?](/help/members/privacy_safety/adults_only)

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